How am I supposed to react when my gf is dancing with other dudes?

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  1. MushroomPrime

    MushroomPrime ******

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    (lolollolololololo ur 14! Wat gf lololol)


    Today we had a school dance and I was dancin with her. This continued for about another 40 minutes until I went to go get a drink, then I came back and she was grinding on this other dude. I didn't dance with any other girls because I didn't want to make her feel weird, but this was a whole new level of wtf-ery. I didn't really know how to react so I pulled her away and asked if she wanted to dance with me. She did, but I'm still kinda thinking about that and how I should react to this
     
  2. Katamari Prime

    Katamari Prime Hassan Chop! TFW2005 Supporter

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    two things:

    1. Talk this over responsibly

    2. Pics or it didn't happen.
     
  3. Spoon

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    How intimate was the dancing?
     
  4. MushroomPrime

    MushroomPrime ******

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    She was like freaking grinding man
     
  5. Wreckgar

    Wreckgar Anthony Stark Veteran

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    I have nothing constructive to say advice wise. But I can say, everything happens for a reason, whether meant to be or not.
     
  6. Beanshi

    Beanshi 22nd Century Robocat

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    a dance is a dance, sometimes its nothing more than that.

    but if it makes you feel that uncomfortable about it, then go and talk to her.

    and remember, in case of emergencies, bring a towel.
     
  7. QuinJester

    QuinJester T. Bison

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    Retaliate by cutting in and grinding with the dude in her place. That'll learn her but good.
     
  8. funstorm

    funstorm Doer of nothing

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    you gotta mark your territory and show that she is yours so that the other males back off and go off in search of other mates
     
  9. Spoon

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    Tell her that it makes you feel uncomfortable?
     
  10. MushroomPrime

    MushroomPrime ******

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    I think that's probably best... Ugh, my head is so clouded I can't even think straight
     
  11. comaface

    comaface Crush, kill, destroy

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    Since the tiny, nearly invisible first sentence implies that you're 14, I have to ask how long she's been your girlfriend and (there isn't really a delicate way to put this, but I'm really not trying to be offensive) if she, um, knows that you consider her to be your girlfriend...
    Preferably not literally, unless she's into watersports
     
  12. Kando

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    dump that bitch
     
  13. Ace Convoy

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    I don't have a GF so my advice prolly won't mean much but I do have some friends whom are girls and I can just say

    1. Talk it out

    2.from experience Stay calm while talking(all females have evil logical minds and will use your anger to mess yourself up)

    3.MAIN POINT calmly CALMLY tell her that you did not feel comfortable with her all up on some other boy.



    plus what i'm about to say may be the reason I don't have a GF...you might want to say that...............uhh...er.........nevermind.. just calmly talk it out
     
  14. Crown_Athlete

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    Dude...that was YOUR girlfriend?
     
  15. Boggs6ft7

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    If she is still going home with you, who cares?
     
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    sorry for the double, but that was hilarious
     
  17. Chaos Muffin

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    If it get's her horny, then you can skip all that foreplay bs when you get home.

    Go to a club by yourself, grind on some chicks, go home and tell her about it.
    If she get's jealous then it's a good time for an agreement to be made.

    Bottom line is you just gotta trust her, it won't work if you don't.
    Also got to have communication, let her know it bothers you if you want.
    Don't tell her to stop or anything, just say it hurt sa little that's all.
    If she chooses to stop, bless her heart, if not, do your own thing and screw what she thinks.
     
  18. Team Jetfire

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    Does she know that you guys are exclusively Boyfriend / Girlfriend?
     
  19. Robogeek28

    Robogeek28 Who're you calling a geek?

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    Yeah just talk to her about it calmly cause if you get pissy with her you may as well forget about it.
     
  20. MushroomPrime

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    Yes, I'm not some creeper who finds a girl he likes and calls her his boyfriend.
     
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