Serious topic, folks. My wife, whom I love very much and who is probably the only person in the world to have ever made me a priority, just told me that she's pregnant. No, I'm not happy. Yes, in a way I agreed to this. Because I knew it's what she wanted, and I realized that it was probably the right thing to do for our relationship in the long term. I guess I thought that if I did the right thing the universe would say "it's great that you made that sacrifice, so in exchange for doing the right thing you get to be sterile!" Anyway, I really don't want to talk to any of my friends about this and I'm not even sure what I'm looking for here. I just needed to say something to someone. I guess it would be nice if someone, especially someone that never dreamed of having kids but did, told me that life goes on. Thanks.