Basically just what the title says. I'm interested to know if anyone else feels like my wife and I feel. I am thirty, she's twenty-eight but we haven't made a decision one way or the other. All we know is we don't want kids anytime soon. Now I know we have plenty of time, but I was curious have any of you with your spouses or significant others have actually made the conscious decision not to have them? If so, how did you arrive at that decision? It's funny, when I was young I always assumed I would have kids, but as I get older I seem to be moving further and further away from that mindset. I also look to other big events in my past for guidance. For instance, I knew I was going to college, no question. Same thing with marriage, I knew I was going to marry my (then) girlfriend, no doubt in my mind. But when it comes to having kids I have some serious doubts and I'm just not sure I want to go there. It's great for people that do want them, but I'm not sure that is me. What are your thoughts?