Thanks ladies! No, I do not intend to go over there to make out. I just wanna hang out. What ever happens happens. Shes in class right now, so Ill ask her later today how she is feeling.
oh yeah...she updated her mood on myspace to understimulated two hours ago.....on VA day. Im the only guy she is talking to. I need to sober up.
The 'Sick' is actually relationship gold. You can show your ability to care and get out quick because she won't want to watch her be sick. Get her some soup, cough drops and flowers. Show up, drop them off, Tell her you wanted to make her feel better and then leave. Then you are good to go and don't have to intrude on her friend, job or sickness. Then she can gab it over and think about her feelings with her friend. And really decide if you are friend or relationship material. You will know quick if there is any interest or not.
Weren't you asking about a younger girl not too long ago? Is this her? Anyways- I believe honesty is the way to go. Speak what's on your mind and be yourself. The only time I say you should censor yourself would be if she was in a relationship- you would just come off as a jerk and show you aren't really trustworthy. Anyways, she is not in a relationship, so speak your mind. And I know "be yourself" is thrown around a LOT, but a lot of people don't understand it and still don't. It means being honest, not being relaxed and "cool" around her. Saying stupid things because your nervous is being yourself, and good people would understand that AND maybe even be flattered. Telling her you had a hard time getting the guff to ask her out is also honesty, not trying to act all confident. Girls do like confidence, but there's no shame in being honest, and you will show her confidence other ways.
Same girl. She just turned 20, Im almost 28. I have done nothing but be myself. She broke up with her BF 2 weeks ago.I wouldnt whine so much about this on a fucking toy robot forum, but it is VD day.
I wouldn't feel so bad about posting about this hear. In all honestly, I don't post on other forums and if I wanted some quick input from a lot of different people with a lot of different backgrounds, but share SOME common ground, I would do it here.
Yeah, TFW2005 is great. How many people put up with my drunken UFO crap? Im lucky that not too many people have put me on ignore...
I took all of your guys and gals advice, and told her exactly what I feel. She has not responded. Thanks alot... Im going insane, I really dont need this...
Don't be stressing out man. If it's meant to be it'll happen, if not..hey no big loss. Better to have given it a shot than to wonder "what if". I've taken a shot at a friend before, and things didn't turn out...and yeah we haven't really spoken at all since then, but in all I'd rather it have ended up as it did than to never know. Just relax, don't let it get to ya. It ain't worth stressing over at all. Also...damn, I had sorta forgotten that it was Valentine's Day, ugh..and to think I had plans for today just a few months back -_-.
VD Day? What is that like Venereal disease day? I kid I kid. Sorry to hear about that EBK, but things are moving now. I hope if goes well!
Just remember, guy--if this is the worst thing that happens to you all month, life is going pretty well. Keep it in perspective, and start looking for the next one. Oh, and utilize Dr. OWAT's thread for anticipatory guidance.
She gave me her number without me having to ask for it. I asked her to hang out tomorrow. Tonight is girls night out...lame. I just got a big raise today, and she told me today that she is not making any money...brings back memories.. leech? No. Shes a nice girl.
>>;; Same here. What I want to know is, how come we have yet to see a girl from the boards asking for relationship advice (more often, I know we did once)?
