gf hates my hobby

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  1. Chaos Muffin

    Chaos Muffin Misadventure Veteran

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    She did pretty well there in the beginning, pretending that she was into it. She even bought me a bunch of Transformers & stuff

    But now, :lol 

    Things have changed, when I want her to leave the room, I get a toy out or start talking about them. Bye

    When I want the livingroom big tv, I throw in some G1. Bye

    When we're out shopping and she hesitantly follows me to the toy aisle (she used to beat me), and I start checking out the figs, all Ihear now is "my belly hurts, my feet are sore, wah wah" , then I say omg they have ??? in stock finally! oh, bye

    I have a feeling it'll eventually come down to me having to choose. My plastic crack addiction, or spending more quality time with her.

    I will miss her.
     
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    So she broke up with you?
     
  3. alfred p. sloan

    alfred p. sloan Well-Known Member

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    we will all miss her.
     
  4. bny888

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    why did she change? did you ask her?
     
  5. SpencimusPrime

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    If she's not accepting of your hobby maybe she's not the one for you.
     
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    I hope my girl that I like/flirting with, will be a little understanding about our "hobby".
     
  7. funstorm

    funstorm Doer of nothing

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    paging optimus sledge plz tell this man what to do
     
  8. iconscons

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    It sounds like she's just not interested in it. It doesn't sound like she's stopping you from having the hobby. Just enjoy TF's during your own time...and when you're with her watch something else.
     
  9. Autobot_Wall-E

    Autobot_Wall-E The Musical

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    Well, don't completely ignore her. The way you made this sound it is as if you don't care. If your TFs really are more important than your girlfriend then why put her through the misery? You really should choose.

    And sorry if I sounded mean with this.....
     
  10. Brrjit

    Brrjit Fembot in Disguise

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    Yeah, I agree with this.
     
  11. panzerjedi

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    Toss her.
     
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    May sound mean, but it's also right.
     
  13. Optimus Sledge

    Optimus Sledge Yar har fiddle di dee

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    Take off and nuke the site from orbit. Maybe ask BurnedAlive to lend you one of his magic satellite weapons. It's the only way to be sure.



    No?

    Ok. If you're genuinely as casual about this as you are in your post, it's over. You're talking about what you do when you want her to leave. That doesn't sound indicative of a healthy relationship.
     
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    i would not...i would tell her " don't let the door hit you in the ass on the way out"
     
  15. Lock Cade

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    This.
     
  16. ILoveDinobot

    ILoveDinobot Arise Rodimus Prime

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    Have you read the book, "She's just not into your hobby?".

    I recommend it for this occasion.
     
  19. Nachtsider

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    Talk the issue over with her. My guess is that this apparent hate for your hobby has its roots in something else. Something deeper/more serious.
     
  20. ORIO

    ORIO Plant-Based Bot Super Mod News Staff

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    Sounds like my girlfriend. We should introduce them so they can bitch about stuff together and eat bons bons or whatever.
     
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