are you ever at a place where you dont know what to do or if you are doing the right thing. many of you know my dad has alzhiemers so we moved down from colorado to be with him and my mom. My wife and i live in a town an hour away from them. there is more work and opportunity here than in their town. We try and see my parents as often as we can but sometimes between work, family, and everyday life,(not to mention gas money) its hard to take a trip down there everyweek to let them play with their granddaughter. and its also really hard seeing him and watching him slowly going away, this makes me feel so selfish because i love my father but somedays i dont want to go see him because i feel depressed and sad that i am watching him deteriorate. I dont know what to do. I Just want to love my family and take care of them but i feel so stretched. now i know that i am not the only one going through this and life sucks for all of us. I just really needed to vent. am i doing the right thing here. any words of wisdom. GOD bless.