Ok guys sorry for the long text, but bare with me Me and my ex-girlfriend used to date each other for like 6 months and after the breakup we remained friends. She goes to me on Sunday that she wants space to rethink everything and stop talking for a little while as she goes to me ITS NOT YOU ITS ME. She also goes she wants to see if she misses me and if she wants to get back together or stay as friends. I respect her decision.She wants to take some time to think whats going on with her life, and if were meant to be together or stay friends. I haven't done anything to her. She goes to me once she isn't looking for a relationship, there's someone that she kinda like and he likes her.. And we spoke on the phone and I go to her since your not ready and don't want a bf now why are you hanging him on a string? And when ur ready u actually think he is gonna sit and wait after you? She goes yes cause he really likes me and I have him wrapped around my finger. Now the question is was she referring to me by pretending its not me? And she thinks I don't let her breath. But really I don't need to know all the details she does at clubs. She thinks I am jealous for telling her I don't care what you do at clubs with guys, or the dates she goes to. What does she means she wants space? Will she contact me again?? what does she mean ITS NOT YOU ITS ME? Thanks Added details: When she broke up with me, she texted me one night saying the only reason why I didn't invite you is because I wouldn't be able to kiss or dance with a guy cause it will kill you inside. Really? and by her texting me this you think it kill me inside??