dont know what to do about this one

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  1. Rumble02

    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    So a buddy of mine who has gone off to a different college than me. well she just got a hold of me and was with this guy. and they were going to get hitched. then he up and breaks it off from no-where and now SHE GOT herpes. If been talking to her. and how she feels. and the bad part is that she is still pining for this SICK SON OF A BITCH! any advice i can give her? never had a friend come to me with this kinda problem. really makes me wanna go back to CO and beat him into non existance. that really fucked up part is she found out that he was aware that he was sick before they even started dating. just didnt want her to know yet wouldnt use protection. UGH I HATE PEOPLE
     
  2. Star Sabre James

    Star Sabre James <b>The JUICE</b> TFW2005 Supporter

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    Women can be like that. I have a female friend who was dating a loser who murdered someone, She thought she got knocked up, found out he was married and has children. She broke up with him. Now she is back with him.

    I have another female friend who only likes to fool around with loses, but when she has a good guy who wants her, she either ignores him or dates him for a short time, and then breaks up with him.



    AGGGGGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    I wish I had something better than that for you. All you can do is try to be a good friend to her and hope she gets some sense in her head.
     
  3. Dark_Convoy

    Dark_Convoy Old Bastard Veteran

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    Don't ever talk to her again.
     
  4. Insane Galvatron

    Insane Galvatron is not insane. Really!

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    Tell her about Jesus.
     
  5. Rumble02

    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    why she is my friend. no romantic or shit like that.
     
  6. Dark_Convoy

    Dark_Convoy Old Bastard Veteran

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    She will only cause trouble for you, in the long run it's not worth it.
     
  7. Liege Prime

    Liege Prime Well-Known Member

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    Tell her you're talking about her on TF forums and she will want to date you!

    EDIT: Sorry. Actually, it's a very common thing with women. There are a lot of girls who seem to have a desire to have fun and exciting relationships and will choose an ass of a guy to fullfill that for them. Generally, a couple relationships like this or maybe one long one will teach the girl what she really wants and doesn't want, then she just needs to have confidence in herself to be able to go out on her own without a signifigant other (one of womens biggest problems is not thinking they cant survive on their own). Then, she will find someone decent, hopefully.
     
  8. Rumble02

    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    Like me she is a Christian. but has made her share of mistakes. and how is talking to her going to hurt me. Im a happily married man who lives in another state.
     
  9. Rumble02

    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    all i wanted was advice. i dont find it funny at all
     
  10. Motor_Master

    Motor_Master Lets the balls touch TFW2005 Supporter

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    Well when you look for advice on the interwebz that's what you'll get.

    Back on topic, about the only advice I would give her is the obvious advice, forget about his lying ass and move on. Also if she can prove that he knowingly gave her an STD, she might be able to press charges, especially if it's something like Herpes, where it doesn't go away 100% (if memory serves).
     
  11. smkspy

    smkspy is one nice fucking kitty

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    Tell her about Satan...he'll make things better.
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  12. MegaMoonMan

    MegaMoonMan www.megamoonman.com TFW2005 Supporter

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    Ironically, the guy who gave her herpes was named Jesus.

    Jesus Menendez.
     
  13. Insane Galvatron

    Insane Galvatron is not insane. Really!

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    **Edited because it should've been sent as a PM.**
     
  14. MegaMoonMan

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    Really pushing rule #10 on that last one, don't you think?

    Are you TRYING to get his advice thread closed?
     
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  15. netkid

    netkid Where's my Goddamn shoe!

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    And the Tenth Board Commandment says:

    10. No discussion on abortion or religion.
    As with politics, these topics are guaranteed flamefest generators; as such, debate/discussion on them is not allowed anywhere on here. Holiday cheer threads to express "Merry Christmas," "Happy Easter," etc. are permitted. Within those threads, posts that pursue avenues of religious debate/discussion will be removed.

    Amen Brother. This thread is full of CLOSED.

    As for being on topic: Rumble02, I am deeply sorry to hear about what happened to your friend and I hope she gets through that mess without suffering anymore damage.
     
  16. sharke

    sharke canadian piece of sh*t

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    Dark Convoy is right. Although a shitty thing to do you should remove yourself from the whole situation. Just because she is going back to the guy. If she can't/won't remove herself from the situation, then theres nothing you can do. Bail out before it all goes to hell.

    If that fails tell her about Satan.....
     
  17. Vagabond Elf

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    Dude, all "Christian" means is that one believes in the Divinity of Christ. That's it.

    The rest of your "advice" is the sort of heavy-handed bollocks that is why the Church is dying out. You come across as a Christian Tailban. I'm just glad your sort is rare in my country.

    @Rumble:

    She has to make up her own mind on life. If it were my friend, I'd tell her to forget this guy and move on - and to spread word far and wide that he has herpes, before he gives it to some other chic. But also tell her that you're still her friend, and you'll be there for her no matter what she does. Most likely, what she needs now is someone to understand, not someone to tell her what to do.
     
  18. Liege Prime

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    Honestly man, we are all here to have fun and I did offer you some additional advice. If you want to talk on a hobby forum like a transformers website, often times people joke to keep the mood light, and I don't see anything wrong with that. I also apologized in the edit to the post before you said anything, just to let you know I wasn't being serious and if you DID take it serioulsy then I am sorry for the offense.
     
  19. sharke

    sharke canadian piece of sh*t

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    Thread closure in 5 4 3 2.............
     
  20. Mr. Jiggles

    Mr. Jiggles loves your mother.

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    Yeah, I think that's the reason for that rule. Some people mean well, they just don't realize how snide they come off.
     

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