Does this girl like me?

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  1. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    I'm 15 and have already had about 5 girlfriends, all didn't last more than 3 weeks due to distance/lack of seeing each other, and i never really understood what signs they showed when they liked me. Now there's this girl at my school that i think is gorgeous and the best parts about her:

    1. no guys are hogging her
    2. she's the shy type(didn't even know a hot shy girl existed lol)
    3. she's not stuck up and over confident like most of the girls i tried.
    4. her personality matches mine perfectly.

    But like I've said, i have trouble telling whether SHE herself might like me or not. here's just a few key things that I'm not sure of, but has been put down as "signs"

    *i made a wise crack that was no where near funny and she laughed(when i wasn't talking to her)

    *i caught her looking at me and she quickly looked away
    *(your gonna LOL to this 1) i randomly made my 11-11-11 wish for her to talk to me for the first time for the hell of it, AND SHE DID later that very day.
    *I noticed she talks louder to everyone else but yet when I'm right in front of her, i can barely hear her.

    usually every time i think a girl likes me it's the complete opposite. but what do you think? is it legit that she has a secret thing for me, or otherwise?
     
  2. John_Force

    John_Force 16xNHRA Funny Car Champ TFW2005 Supporter

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    The fact that she's looking at you and then quickly turns away seals the deal. She's obviously got a thing for you.
     
  3. The Dark Seeker

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    Aside from being blunt and just asking (which may not be the best idea), why not ask her out or something? :)  If she'd be willing to spend time with ya....it could be an even better indication :D 
     
  4. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    well to me its about timing. everyone tells me i should ask her out immediately but i dont want to be too eager you know?
     
  5. The Dark Seeker

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    True....but hey....what could it hurt? Don't wait too long though.
     
  6. Matty

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    The way I see it, you're 15 years old. Even if you fuck up royally and she doesn't like you you're still going to have 3 years left of high school to make up for it.
     
  7. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    true. already learned my lesson on that

    true true!
     
  8. Murasame

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    Sounds like she's liking you. Get her. At your age it's much easier to tell if a girl wants you or not.
    When you get older you have to play women's stupid games like not calling her too much but not too seldom and all this bullshit instead of just becoming a couple because two persons like each other...

    Whatever.

    Have fun! :D 
     
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    You've got it made now, OP. She wants to have your children.
     
  10. Starfire22

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    Ah TFW love advice, this'll be interesting. :popcorn 
     
  11. Releaser...

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    If you take an example from some girls i've known/discussed about etc etc, don't bet on it. Most women are nuts (of course, there are always exceptions, my gf included :p ).
    @transformervic1:
    If you don't ask her out, you'll never know for sure; and if she likes you, waiting is pointless.
    Bottomline, if she really likes you, is one of the sane exceptions :) p) and unless you do something really stupid, you got yourself a girl.
     
  12. Rusty24

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    I'm having this same situation right now. I would ask her out, but I am afraid of ruining our friendship. She's easily the best female friend that I have. Also, I think her best friend likes me as well.
     
  13. The Dark Seeker

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    In before the derriere comments :D 
     
  14. Aernaroth

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    She is disgusted by you but, like a car crash, cannot look away. Nor can she bear for you to make eye contact.

    Seriously though? Only one way to find out if she's into you. Go ask her.
     
  15. transformervic1

    transformervic1 HI!

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    good point.

    so far, i have to ask her out. any advice on a conversation that could lead up to this proposal?
     
  16. firehawc_69

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    "Hi"
     
  17. ShiroPrime

    ShiroPrime blargh

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    "Got gum?"
    You'd be amazed how well this works.







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  18. guard convoy

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    Boy, you got to show that you mean business, you need to go up to her and be like, "baby, you see i'm a man, and you're a woman, so lets do the math and get to that sweet, sweet love making"

    Never fails
     
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    I can imagine this has netted you every Luka cosplayer you've ever come across, no?
     
  20. guard convoy

    guard convoy The Big Daddy

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    of course it has, Bitches can't resist the Big Daddy's charm
     

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