Can I get some Opinions what to do?

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  1. wikkiddavis

    wikkiddavis The wikkid man

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    Hi! Ive never done this before im a crappy spelller and my grammer sucks but Ill do the best I can!

    The problem is a Girl (Of Course) came into my life about 5 years ago and we started dating She lives 2 in a half hours away from me so It was a long distance type of thing. I went to her Prom,she was at my birthday that was the best time of my life to and I went to her grad party about 3 weeks ago now. I thought everything was going good Untill a week ago.

    She then text me saying she wants a break and she wants her space,Im 2 hours away but she wants space WTF! but anyways I don't like the idea soo I go along with it anyways just to make her happy its all I wanted though. Well I come to find out shes dating someone else now, she told me shes only datin him to get over breaking up with me. I don't know if thats the case but I got no reason not to beleave her right? I sent her a message on Facebook last night,when I wanted to work things out with her. She told me the reason she did it was because shes not good enough for me when I know that she is. She then says she lives for the "Moment" and she doesnt know what she wants to do and she doesnt wanna feel bad about what she did to me? Should I try to at least be friends or should I tell her to F-Off.

    Sorry once again about my grammer but I can only do what I can. Thanks for anyone opinions.
     
  2. McBradders

    McBradders James Franco Club! Moderator

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    Probably best just to kick her to the kerb man.

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  3. Tenebrouser

    Tenebrouser Craft...or is it crap?

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    There's plenty of fish in the pond.
     
  4. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    Long distance rarely works. Sorry bud. I would guess she didn't want to do it anymore and just needed a way to let you go gently. Out of interest, how old are you guys?
     
  5. Deefuzz

    Deefuzz Beard On! Beardmaster! Veteran

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    Let it go.
     
  6. wikkiddavis

    wikkiddavis The wikkid man

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    im 21 shes 18 and I don't know about her not wanting to do it anymore shes going to College out here by me I was one of the reasons why she was going to the college in the first place. I think anyways I was hoping it was.
     
  7. smangerbot

    smangerbot The Holy Zombie Jesus TFW2005 Supporter

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    whatever you do, don't grovel or harass her, keep your dignity. at 21 you've a whole lot of dating to get through yet bud.
     
  8. Prowl_Delta_31

    Prowl_Delta_31 Eating your donuts

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    Yep let her go.
     
  9. wikkiddavis

    wikkiddavis The wikkid man

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    lol kinda to late for that now but im goona let her decide if she wants to talk to me anymore. My stomach has that odd hurt feeling in it right now If i can get rid of that this wouldnt be so bad.
     
  10. RimFyre

    RimFyre mmm,Energon Goodie

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    let her go,cut all ties with her...after awhile she will want to come back to you...hopefully by then you will have a totally awesome chick who will buy you TF's just for the hell of it!!
     
  11. smangerbot

    smangerbot The Holy Zombie Jesus TFW2005 Supporter

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    well i've been there quite a few times, trust me in that getting angry and calling her up is going to make everything worse for yourself no one else. the best thing you can do is lose interest.
     
  12. wikkiddavis

    wikkiddavis The wikkid man

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    How do you just loose interest though?I cared alot about this girl and everything I dunno if I can do that.

    I feel like I wasted time, effort and money to try to make this happen and she just squated over my head and took a shit on my stomach.
     
  13. Star Sabre James

    Star Sabre James <b>The JUICE</b> TFW2005 Supporter

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    She's probably found a new guy close to her. This is her lame way of breaking up with you. Get over her, and move on.
     
  14. wikkiddavis

    wikkiddavis The wikkid man

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    ive been thinking that to but when she goes to College she will in the same type of thing all over again hes just a big drug head anyways. oh well if thats what she wants to do then ima let her thanks for your help everyone if anyone else has anything to add please do.
     
  15. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    Blackmail her with all the naked photos you have.



    (Don't actually do this)
     
  16. smangerbot

    smangerbot The Holy Zombie Jesus TFW2005 Supporter

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    if you learn something its not wasted time my friend. to lose interest, i don't know really, just don't contact her for a long freaking time is my advice.
     
  17. McBradders

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    Videogames, beer and pornography help.
     
  18. smangerbot

    smangerbot The Holy Zombie Jesus TFW2005 Supporter

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    that's your answer for everything.
     
  19. Skor

    Skor I HATE U TRASH MONSTAAAR! TFW2005 Supporter

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    swallow the bitterness and just move on. It's certainly for the best, believe me.


    Eventually you'll meet someone and they'll never ask for a 'break'. That's the one you want.
     
  20. llamatron

    llamatron Shut up, Nigel. TFW2005 Supporter

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    Twin Twist said the same thing to me when he found out about my hemorrhoids.
     

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