Found out wife and I are unable to have kids on our own (which is very devastating news) so we are now looking to adopt since we still want kids. Did some research online and it seems like a long and expensive process. For those who have adopted (particularly a newborn), if you don't mind sharing your experience...what to expect. And for those who were adopted, I'm interested to know how those adopted feel about being adopted. Cuz one of the things I think about is how my potentially adopted son or daughter would feel later when he/she finds out he/she is adopted.