I understand that you gotta do what you gotta do, and that sometimes a marriage being in the middle of that isn't that big of a deal to you. I understand that you think giving me money in exchange for taking my wife to Japan should be "satisfactory" enough, to make up for the income lost. What I don't understand is why you think it makes since not to give that money to me because you don't have proof of my not being with my wife, when you wouldn't give me clearance to go with her in the first place. Or why you're now saying "Y'know the money we give you, to pay bills with? We're cutting that into less than half, and not telling you about it until bills are due. The same bills you couldn't afford last month courtesy of us here at the Navy's TSC department." So now, not only have you split me from my wife of less than 8 months for about 2 years, but you're wreaking havoc on my finances and credit. Thanks Navy, way to be a team player.