Let me start by saying, my wife and I aren't having kids. We just don't have the patience for it, plus I'm too selfish. That doesn't mean we hate kids or anything, just don't want them. So I have a man cave in my basement. I spent my hard earned money making it the way I want it. Bought a Huge TV, nice surround sound speakers, receiver and blu ray player. I also put up shelves to put my transformers on. I spend my hard earned money on my transformers too, and have some expensive ones. 2010 unicron, all my fansproject stuff.... Anyway, so last night my wife invited our neighbor and her kids over to watch a movie. The kids are a girl aged 4 and a boy aged 6 I think. I told my wife I didn't care if they came over as long as the kids don't touch anything downstairs. So they come over, and immediately the boy wants to play with all my transformers. His mom at first told him no, but then got distracted with something, don't know what. So I asked him nicely not to touch anything. Next he stands on his chair and proceeds to tell me that my display has the transformers in the wrong order and I need to move them. I told him they were fine and weren't being moved. He starts walking from shelf to shelf either touching or getting as close as he can to the toys. I wasn't really mad about that, I was more mad that the mother didn't say anything, when she knew that was my rule. I don't spend my money on the stuff in my man cave for other peoples kids to come over and play with, if I wanted that, I would have my own kids. I spend my money on those things to make me happy, for me to enjoy. I don't go over to other peoples houses and just start touching all their stuff, or breaking the rules of the house that they have. The mom says the kid has some kind of behavioral issues, I think she is simply making excuses, since she coddles the damn kid horribly. The girl still sucks on a pacifier. Oh and we were watching finding nemo, but we had to skip the first chapter because the barracuda was too scary. Am I overreacting? I don't know, I just think that kids these days are coddled too much, and need to listen to people when they put rules in place.