Am i making a mistake?

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  1. Ghost Prime

    Ghost Prime Banned

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    Ok afew people here may know my old situation and what happened in the past and the advise i was given.
    Well to cut a long story short i came back to Manchester (my home town) i tried to get a job there with no sucess and i was pretty unhappy and my grandmother was driving me crazy by nagging at me all the time about everything and anything.

    About 2 weeks ago my ex came down to see me without telling me, i figured i would at least talk to her as i did miss her (you dont just stop loving someone after 2 years together) and we started talking as you would expect.

    Anyways she started being really honest with me about what happened between us and with her cheating on me and the whole drug issue problem she had. I was alittle surprised because she was telling me everything about what happened while we were going threw the break-up

    Basically she wants me to come back to York and live with her again. She stopped seeing those people she cheated on me with and explained that whole situation to me. one of the main problems was the guy was feeding her drug problem which made her kinda screwy.
    Shes not a serious addict or anything, more like a casual user or for example someone who gets totally drug at the weekend because the week at work has been awful. She kinda wants ME to be in control of that situation tho.......as in i hold the drugs for her and choose when she can/cant have them depending on how obedient she is/has been to me.

    Dont get me wont here i hate drugs, i saw a friend of mine die because some idiot put washing powder in with a small amount of coke. I worry because if i say no to her then she more than likely will just go ahead and do it anyway. At least if im in control of it then she is kinda taking it sensabily as i wont let her take it very often (im gona try for not at all really) and hopefully i mght be able to get her off it.

    I phoned my ex-boss up and he said if i wanted my old job back that i could have it. He said everyone at work missed me and he liked me because i was a very hard worker and that he respected me.....i felt pretty touched about that.
    i also could use the money as ive got about 150GBP in my bank account now and thats it. Anyone here unemployed will know that wont last me very long at all.

    My ex has been seriously honest with me now and i can see she is sorry for whats happened but because of other situations im kinda unsure what to do. I love her like crazy, she may have hurt me more than anyone in the world but she also has made me very happy in the past to. i dont like the idea of managing her drug problem tho but if i dont do it then she might just go off the rails completely.....

    i just feel like im in a catch22 situation and im unsure of what to do.
    i would like some advise from people who may have had problems like this or something like this in the past.
    Please i dont want any dumb jokes or curious questions about my girlfriend. I just want honest advise please.

    thanks
     
  2. KA

    KA PENIS GOES WHERE?!!

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    i love these threads.

    token advice: dont bring back garbage in after youve taken them out.
     
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    smangerbot The Holy Zombie Jesus TFW2005 Supporter

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    i'm with KA.
     
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    Bryan ΜΟΛΩΝ ΛΑΒΕ

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    KA PENIS GOES WHERE?!!

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    I Wasss Onncceeee A Maaaaaannnn, A Maaaaaaan
     
  6. Ops_was_a_truck

    Ops_was_a_truck JOOOLIE ANDREWWWWWS!!!!!!

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    FUCKING STEER CLEAR OF THAT SHIT. Here are the cliche'd answers, which still apply equally well:

    1. Plenty of fish in the sea.
    2. Better to have a roof over your head and a good, steady job
    3. Hugs not drugs

    I would never, in my life, trust someone who is addicted to illegal drugs, no matter how much I loved them.
     
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    NO!
    Don't do it. Stay away from the drama. Find someone else. That's all I will say here, and I could say a lot more.
     
  8. TonyzCustomz

    TonyzCustomz Am I doin it rite? TFW2005 Supporter

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    QuantumShock Stay for brunch ?

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    No no no no no no no

    As a friend to help her through her drug addiction, yes. Come back as a lover, no. And I am not hating her just because of drug addict.
     
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    Go back to your old job, but not the girl.
     
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    Agreed. Consider it a lesson learned and move on.
     
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    You can die from snorting laundry powder? News to me.

    And oh yeah, take her back. Then we can have more threads when she fucks up yet again.
     
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    She's a mistake that you better off not have in your life.
     
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    Rumble02 Radicon of Obliticons

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    Once a cheater allways a cheater and drugs dont make for good company either. GO WEST YOUNG MAN
     
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    MegaMoonMan www.megamoonman.com TFW2005 Supporter

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    I saw this quote in another thread:

    The irony kills me.
     
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    Erector I ruined the Hall of Fame

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    no.

    simple answer.
     
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    i'm starting to wonder who is bad for who here...
     
  18. Ghost Prime

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    i wish it was that simple to have my job back again. problem is my JOB is in YORK while my folks home is in MANCHESTER which basically means 2 hours on the train + £17.89 each way..........so its not very cost effective and it wont work if i have a seriously early shift
     
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    They don't rent, how you say, flats in York?
     
  20. Ghost Prime

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    they do but ive 2 dogs and 5 puppies with me at the moment and its VERY hard to find a place in york thats ok with renting to people with pets, even Hampsters anit aloud in most flats in York
     
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