Just lost my Dad tonight

Discussion in 'General Discussion' started by bellpeppers, Nov 27, 2016.

  1. Mako Crab

    Mako Crab Well-Known Member

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    2016 has been a shit year. Sorry for your loss. :( 
     
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  2. Honorbound

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
     
  3. TFW10

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    I am very sorry for your loss, I will keep him and you in my prayers
     
  4. Sylent

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    Sorry to hear that. My condolences. Take solace in the fact that he got to meet his great grandson and lived a long, fruitful life.
     
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  5. GoLion

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    You have my sympathies, BP.
     
  6. bellpeppers

    bellpeppers A Meat Popsicle

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    I'd like to thank everyone for their wishes.
    It's greatly appreciated.
    I took half the day off today to start arrangements. Couldn't start earlier because the funeral home is closed weekends. Being fresh off my mom's funeral I was more prepared. Scheduling being the way it's is it doesn't look like it will happen until early next week tho.
     
  7. tikgnat

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    Sorry to hear about your Dad man. Best wishes.
     
  8. Autovolt 127

    Autovolt 127 Get In The Titan, Prime!

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    Very sad to hear both of your parents died this year.

    Condolences.
     
  9. Seeker

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    I'm so sorry for your loss.
     
  10. moreprimeland

    moreprimeland Optimus told me to do it!

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    So sorry to hear about your dad's passing bp, condolences to you and yours.

    My parents died with a very short time between their deaths... and their death's affected me very differently as one was expected, the other was not. It's strange and very hard to lose them both in such a short time.

    Also, he could have been hiding a medical condition from you, mine did... and the holidays can bring on depression to the surviving spouse, especially in that first year.. and the loss can be overwhelming to them.. they don't want to go on.

    Will send prayers for strength that will help you deal with all you will be going thru in the coming weeks..
     
  11. chrisr291

    chrisr291 Master of the Unknown

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    It is never easy losing a parent, but losing both so close to one another is devastating. Both my parents died recently too, best advice I can give is stay busy, remember the fun times, and enjoy your family.
     
  12. Novaburnhilde

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    My condolences to you and your family, my friend. I am deeply grieved to hear of your loss.

    :rip 
     
  13. Doug

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    I know how it is. I lost my dad six years ago.
     
  14. Eric

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    I'm sorry for your loss.
     
  15. Gingerchris

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    Sorry to hear, fella. Hug everyone you have still around you.
     
  16. Star Sabre James

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    A very good friend of mine lost both of her parents within a 3 month period. It hit her hard.

    I'm so sorry for your loss.
     
  17. bellpeppers

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    Well, I'm gonna be leaving shortly to go lay him to rest. His funeral is in a little over 3 hours from now.

    Thank you every for indulging me in this thread and all your kind words.
     
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  18. xdmisato

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    My sincerest condolences to you and your family.
     
  19. grayfox

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    Very sorry for your loss, man. Hang in there!
     
  20. Large

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    I can't even begin to imagine what you feel.
    I'm so sorry for your loss, all my thoughts and strenght to you and yours.