Fembots are a fact of life, once you accept that you will be a lot happier.
So I saw
ROTF two more times this weekend and...I hate to say it but, I enjoyed it so much better the second time. I don't know if it's because I wasn't tired like when we saw it in IMAX or that I knew what I was in for. Also for me, I actually liked it better on the standard screen than IMAX, it was easier for me to see what was going on.
I saw it for a third time this morning with my Mom and she really liked it. I hope you got/get a chance to see it again when you are fully rested and give it another look.
Hope your vacation is going well...ttyl