Please don't take this the wrong way, and I know this sound cliche, but don't put her on a pedestal. You know her for a couple of weeks, so take her one day at a time. I use to do the same things about girls I liked. I would make them better then they were. I am not saying she is not great, but don't make her better then she is. Give her a chance. TBH, one girl said to me, I am not who you think I am. She was honest, and I was lucky, because I learned something. If you don't rush things and just enjoy, you should be fine. I know this is also hard, but don't spend every moment with her. In the begining, girls love that stuff, then for no reason it scares them. I cannot figure that one out, and I am married. No clue why. So just give her some room and make room for yourself. Your hobbies, your job and everything else is what is important. She is another thing, that will become equally important. Just make her earn that importance. I know that sounds harsh, but it is true. You should earn her importance and she should earn yours. Now for the good news, older women are always better to date. As much as a Woman wants to tell you that they are more mature, it is a load of shit. Sure, they were more mature when they were 12, but not when they are 24. I could get into their in-maturities, but that is counterproductive to this thread. An older woman will know when she found a good thing, because they have thrown away good things in the past. They will have their "heads on" better then did in their early 20s, so that is good. Also happy to hear your working through your stuff, that is very important. Only thing I would say about Psychiatrists is that you know when your done. Don't let them know when your done, because some of them never think your done.
I gotta agree. First rule of a relationship is give the girl a ridiculously amazing orgasm. One that she cannot get every day from any dude. Eddie Murphy was right, when you make their toes curl, they are yours. Even if they hate you they will come back for more!
Yeah, I lived this rule when I was married. To be honest, I may not have been married if it was not for this rule. My wife, dumped me 3 times. LOL, she just kept coming back, LOL. I am still not sure if she hates me or not.
Eh, my wife and I were madly in love and knew we'd want to spend the rest of our lives together barely a month after we met. Congratulations and good luck, OP.
Same as my gf of over 3 years but this guy obviously didn't love her if he's already worshipping another girl, and I'm sure he "loves" this one too.
Waitwaitwaitwaitwaitwait............. You're married? I pictured you like that Dos Equis guy, surrounded by midget strippers. Wow....what a letdown.
Yeah but see, he still does all of those things (and more). He just does them while being married & remaining 100% faithful. It's the Nachtsider way.
I don't know if I'd take advice from the same man that starred in such classics as Norbit and Meet Dave, but whatever.
Hey, we all mess up in life. He needed the money. Men do weird things for money. Doesn't mean he is wrong, just that he makes mistakes. I think he owned gangsters money. LOL.