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Starsabrej
01-15-2006, 03:48 PM
Sick story, heard way too much lately. But the chicks name is funny. She sounds like a pron star.
Former teacher gets jail for sex with student
Deputy DA says she groomed boy for abuse
By Bonnie Eslinger
Staff Writer
Published: Friday, January 13, 2006 11:04 PM PST
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A former San Francisco middle school teacher who seduced and had sex with a 14-year-old male student was sentenced to three months in the county jail and three months house arrest Friday.
Deputy District Attorney Rebecca Wagner told Superior Court Judge Herbert Donaldson that Nieka Arreola, 32, a former teacher at Luther Burbank Middle School, began “grooming” the student for abuse when he was 13 years old by giving him special attention, having him assigned to be her aide and giving him rides home.
Then she became more aggressive, Wagner said, initiating the relationship by putting his hand on her body and saying, “Why don’t you ever touch me?”
On Feb. 16, 2004, Arreola was caught when she was discovered partially clothed with the boy in a steamy parked car in McLaren Park, according to a police report. The boy later testified in court that on several occasions the two had sexual intercourse and oral sex.
While Arreola could have faced up to 10 years in prison, Wagner said, she accepted a lighter sentence of up to one year in county jail in exchange for a guilty plea, because there would have been no guarantee of punishment if the case had gone to trial.
“We wanted to make sure that she was going to see the inside of a jail cell,” said Wagner, adding that she was disappointed that the judge didn’t sentence the teacher to the full year.
Arreola, who lives in Oakland with her husband and newborn baby, will also have to register with the state as a sexual predator and will lose her teaching credential.
Her attorney, Ted Cassman, told the judge that his client had initiated contact with the boy to help him.
“Initially, it was an act of compassion that became twisted and wrong and she knows that,” he said.
Arreola cried during her sentencing but did not make any statement to the judge, nor did she look in the direction of the boy, now 15, and his family, who were also in court on Friday.
Shaun_C
01-15-2006, 04:15 PM
Sheesh
Ever since Lisa Lynette Clark and Debra LaFave.It seems like 14 yr old boys having sex with their teachers is the new wave :redface2:
Insane Galvatron
01-15-2006, 04:34 PM
When I was 14, I would've looooooved to sleep with one of my teachers.. There was this one in particular........
I'm kinda glad it didn't happen now. But at the time.....
MegaMoonMan
01-15-2006, 05:04 PM
When I was 14, I would've looooooved to sleep with one of my teachers.. There was this one in particular........
I know what you mean there...oh yeah..
MegaPrime33
01-15-2006, 05:23 PM
Was she hot? This thread is useless without pictures.
Holy shit. What the FUCK is wrong with these people?! Soon, no one will be allowed to be a teacher.
Men won't want to be them for fear of being accused of it. (and without evidence, they'd still get the book thrown at 'em. Although some male teachers actually do end up fooling around with their students. Proven of course. So there's merit to some of the accusations.)
Women will screw your kid(s) (and get a year if the court even wants to push it) it's been proven to us.
Everyone will be home schooled, or educated through internet courses. They're going to have to be. This is friggin' ridiculous!
What the hell is wrong with teachers? Hell for that matter...the people? When did this become common practice? Why an underaged kid? What the hell?
llamatron
01-15-2006, 05:55 PM
Arreola, who lives in Oakland with her husband and newborn baby
Wow. Seriously, just...ack.
aksmth
01-15-2006, 06:14 PM
*repeats thread is worthless without pictures comment*
MegaMoonMan
01-15-2006, 06:31 PM
Ask and ye shall recieve, but she's not much to write a report about or anything.
http://a.abclocal.go.com/images/kgo/kgo_022504_arreola.jpg
Wreckgar
01-15-2006, 06:35 PM
Newborn baby? I want a paternity test.
Cheetatron
01-15-2006, 08:02 PM
Newborn baby? I want a paternity test.
Quoted for truth
I dunno what the financial situation is at that house but if I were her husband I would be getting a divorce.
Streck
01-15-2006, 08:06 PM
This would have been way hotter if the student were also female.
llamatron
01-15-2006, 08:39 PM
This would have been way hotter if the student were also female.
And if there were three of them...
Streck
01-15-2006, 08:46 PM
And if there were three of them...
No, that's just sick.
rattrap007
01-15-2006, 09:24 PM
What is with these teachers and 13/14 year old boys? Are they that damn sexy to them? I mean come on.. what is this the 6-7th time we've had of this since Laterno? And notice the women get off easy. If a male teacher sleeps with a girl he gets life pretty much. He is hated for years. People want his head on a platter. Woman does it and she only get 4-5 years in jail and then can marry the kid and gets TV interviews. WTF?
Zero Prime
01-15-2006, 09:27 PM
What gets me about the story is that is a 30 something man was having sex with a 14 girl then he would have picked up some time (unless you have a dumb ass judge that only gives out 90 days and doesn't like punishment).
Why is it "OK" for Woman to sleep with minors, but wrong for men. She should recieve the same ounishment any man would get because she is just as sick!!
Shaun_C
01-15-2006, 10:52 PM
What is with these teachers and 13/14 year old boys? Are they that damn sexy to them? I mean come on.. what is this the 6-7th time we've had of this since Laterno? And notice the women get off easy. If a male teacher sleeps with a girl he gets life pretty much. He is hated for years. People want his head on a platter. Woman does it and she only get 4-5 years in jail and then can marry the kid and gets TV interviews. WTF?
What gets me about the story is that is a 30 something man was having sex with a 14 girl then he would have picked up some time (unless you have a dumb ass judge that only gives out 90 days and doesn't like punishment).
Why is it "OK" for Woman to sleep with minors, but wrong for men. She should recieve the same ounishment any man would get because she is just as sick!!
^^^
Welcome to the fantastic world of the sexual double standard gentlemen :redface2:
You see an older woman who has sex with a much younger man is a "Cougar";A 35+ year old female who is on the "hunt" for a much younger, energetic, willing-to-do-anything male.And apparantly a woman doing this isn't as bad as a man
Don't know why it's like that but that's the way it is
Hot Rodimus
01-16-2006, 02:15 AM
I'm surprised she got any jail time.
Chaos Muffin
01-16-2006, 02:38 AM
That little pimp. Bet he got an A+A+A+A+
Teachers don't want apples anymore, they want stiff ones.
MegaPrime33
01-16-2006, 07:23 AM
Ask and ye shall recieve, but she's not much to write a report about or anything.
http://a.abclocal.go.com/images/kgo/kgo_022504_arreola.jpg
She looks pretty young to me, did they say how old she is?
Enigma2K2
01-16-2006, 01:15 PM
What gets me about the story is that is a 30 something man was having sex with a 14 girl then he would have picked up some time (unless you have a dumb ass judge that only gives out 90 days and doesn't like punishment).
Why is it "OK" for Woman to sleep with minors, but wrong for men. She should recieve the same ounishment any man would get because she is just as sick!!
Probably because the man usually rapes the girl, while the woman managed to get the boy to consent...
Shaun_C
01-16-2006, 01:43 PM
Probably because the man usually rapes the girl, while the woman managed to get the boy to consent...
See that's the double standard that Zero Prime and Rattrap007 are talking about.
These women are sexual predators pure and simple.They might not be forcing themselves on these boys.But SERIOUSLY it's not hard to understand that a 32 yr old having sex with a 15 yr old is wrong NO MATTER the gender
MegaMoonMan
01-16-2006, 01:47 PM
These women are sexual predators pure and simple.They might not be forcing themselves on these boys.But SERIOUSLY it's not hard to understand that a 32 yr old having sex with a 15 yr old is wrong NO MATTER the gender
If I were the consenting 15 year old I would probably disagree.
But yeah, it's not too cool on her part.
Random Autobot
01-16-2006, 04:28 PM
I would say that what really makes this a predatory, or manipulative act on her part is her station in the kids life. She holds a position of power and influence over the kid, and that right there is wrong. The fact of the matter is that most 15 year old boys would jump at the chance to get down with any reasonably attractive female that shows interest. It's less likely that a 15 year old girl would really WANT to sleep with a 30 year old man, hell, they barely want to sleep with boys their own age at that time.
When I was 16 I got involved with a woman who was 30. I didn't once feel like I was being taken advantage of, or being manipulated. However, I will say that every woman I've been involved with since then has her to thank for a whole slew of things... if you get my drift ;)
MegaMoonMan
01-16-2006, 04:44 PM
When I was 16 I got involved with a woman who was 30. I didn't once feel like I was being taken advantage of, or being manipulated. However, I will say that every woman I've been involved with since then has her to thank for a whole slew of things... if you get my drift ;)
This statement is useless without details.
Random Autobot
01-16-2006, 04:46 PM
Well, she wasn't a teacher, but she gave me one hell of an early education.
Predaking
01-16-2006, 05:37 PM
Consenting or no it's still counted as statutory rape and therefore she should get the same kind of sentencing a male would've gotten under the same case. There is a double standard when it comes to female sexual predator. They are protrayed more like a sexual fantasy for teen boys imo. While a guy would've been compared to child molesters and the like.
Insane Galvatron
01-16-2006, 06:36 PM
Wow. Seriously, just...ack.
I just realised.... Her husband either sucks in bed, or is really small for her to want a boy not fully developed yet...
I mean really.. who here can say his penis was as large at 14 as it is now? I now mine grew more..
MegaMoonMan
01-16-2006, 06:38 PM
I just realised.... Her husband either sucks in bed, or is really small for her to want a boy not fully developed yet...
I mean really.. who here can say his penis was as large at 14 as it is now? I now mine grew more..
Or maybe she just likes them young.
Streck
01-16-2006, 07:50 PM
Or maybe she just likes them young.
Think of it. A young, fresh, pubescent male, his skin smooth with only suggestions of hair, his tight shirt revealing every contour of the firm muscles he got doing yardwork, his pants bulging with power he doesn't fully comprehend, his mind burning with a confused passion, his desperate eyes meeting those of his beckoning teacher... and... and...
Predaking
01-16-2006, 08:06 PM
Think of it. A young, fresh, pubescent male, his skin smooth with only suggestions of hair, his tight shirt revealing every contour of the firm muscles he got doing yardwork, his pants bulging with power he doesn't fully comprehend, his mind burning with a confused passion, his desperate eyes meeting those of his beckoning teacher... and... and...
:stick: for putting this image in our heads.
Dark Magnus
01-16-2006, 08:11 PM
Maybe it has to do with all those Human Growth Hormones in foods nowadays. I mean, if girls are getting tig ol' bitties earlier and earlier, the same must be happening for the guys in their man parts.
MegaMoonMan
01-16-2006, 08:17 PM
Think of it. A young, fresh, pubescent male, his skin smooth with only suggestions of hair, his tight shirt revealing every contour of the firm muscles he got doing yardwork, his pants bulging with power he doesn't fully comprehend, his mind burning with a confused passion, his desperate eyes meeting those of his beckoning teacher... and... and...
That is teh hotness!
You should write romance novels or something.
Shaun_C
01-16-2006, 10:31 PM
Consenting or no it's still counted as statutory rape and therefore she should get the same kind of sentencing a male would've gotten under the same case. There is a double standard when it comes to female sexual predator. They are protrayed more like a sexual fantasy for teen boys imo. While a guy would've been compared to child molesters and the like.
Yup,testosterone and hormones are the new cop out.When a teen girl/boy is sexually irresponsible they just blame the hormones :rolleyes:
The fact of the matter is that most 15 year old boys would jump at the chance to get down with any reasonably attractive female that shows interest.
That's a broad generalization and you know it.That's simply a cop out
It's less likely that a 15 year old girl would really WANT to sleep with a 30 year old man, hell, they barely want to sleep with boys their own age at that time.
Are you joking? :peoples:
No they want it just as much IF NOT more
Link 1 (http://www.sheffieldtoday.net/ViewArticle2.aspx?SectionID=58&ArticleID=1310838) Link 2 (http://www.edendailynews.com/servlet/Satellite?pagename=EDN%2FMGArticle%2FEDN_BasicArticle&c=MGArticle&cid=1128769107357&path=!news!localnews)
And like has been posted before WE KNOW that if it was a 15 yr old girl and a 32 yr old man that each one of you would be calling for his head.
Saying that when a man has sex with a minor is usually rape.But when a woman has sex with a minor is consentual is EXTREMELY hypocritical.And a broad generalization
Enigma2K2
01-16-2006, 11:03 PM
Who wants to bet that when she gets out, the boy will try to contact her again?
Chaos Muffin
01-17-2006, 03:08 AM
If I were him Id be jamming out on the Van Halen 1984 album with a smile
Wing alpha
01-17-2006, 07:43 AM
truth to be told he will be looked up as a hero.....by his peers anyway.
No Im not kidding. you should see highschools ,and junior highs today.
Lance Halberd
01-17-2006, 11:11 AM
truth to be told he will be looked up as a hero.....by his peers anyway.
No Im not kidding. you should see highschools ,and junior highs today.
I'm all set with that. I have to spend my day looking at college girls, what with their painted-on low-rise jeans with a hint of thong panties peeking out the back, and those body-hugging mid-riff shirts that barely gird their firm, perky, gravity-defying breasts and coying reveal their flat, toned tummies and the occasional naughty girl tattoo or pierced bellybutton.
Yep.
llamatron
01-17-2006, 12:01 PM
Yup,testosterone and hormones are the new cop out.When a teen girl/boy is sexually irresponsible they just blame the hormones :rolleyes:
There are so many cop-outs these days. Infact, I think I read about some research once (unfortantly I cannot provide a source, and I'm sure my retelling of the experiment is grossly inaccurate) where they took two groups of girls going into puberty - they told one that they would suffer wild uncontrollable mood swings and be total bitches during their periods, and the others were not told of these wacky emotional changes - the group that was told they would be bitches acted in that extreme way, and the other group were a lot milder.
And of course then there's the over diagnosing of things like add, dyslexia and so forth - giving people even more excuses as to why they shouldn't do any work or ever bother trying.
*Note: Before I have several different people jumping up and down and yelling at me - "ADD and Dyslexia are real problems, not everyone is mis-diagnosed, etc" - Yes, I know that.*
MegaMoonMan
01-17-2006, 01:58 PM
That's a broad generalization and you know it.That's simply a cop out
I'm not so sure...
Let's put it to a vote: How many guys here, when they were 15, would have totally banged that one hot teacher if she was asking for it?
Draven
01-17-2006, 02:23 PM
Let's put it to a vote: How many guys here, when they were 15, would have totally banged that one hot teacher if she was asking for it?
Not I, sir.
Mind you, the hottest teacher in my school still have a face like a bulldog licking piss off a thistle. I kid you not; her facial hair was more impressive than mine was.
Shaun_C
01-17-2006, 02:29 PM
I'm not so sure...
Let's put it to a vote: How many guys here, when they were 15, would have totally banged that one hot teacher if she was asking for it?
Not me,doing your teacher would be like doing your mom :redface2:
Besides MMM,that's a loaded question.And being the internet you'll get the typical "Internet guy" response
Predaking
01-17-2006, 02:54 PM
I don't think you can just assume every underage teenage boys to be hormone-ragin', sexual peakin', poke-everything-in-sight kind of people. Sure they are interested in sex and sure there are many teenage pregnancies in this country but not every boy would want to sleep with a older woman just because he can. Mind you there are teens out there with a standard, and a moral. :lol
Pravus Prime
01-17-2006, 05:51 PM
The double standard is always disturbing.
Truth be told, in regards to the question, there was one teacher in high school, that I would've. Outside of that one teacher, any other, even if they were "asking for it?", I would've turned down at 15. However, I would add that it is probably meaningless, even if you could point out that nearly every example, both ways, it would've happened consentually, it doesn't make it right, acceptable, or endorse either light punishment or double standards.
Nephthys
01-17-2006, 10:46 PM
Not I, sir.
Mind you, the hottest teacher in my school still have a face like a bulldog licking piss off a thistle. I kid you not; her facial hair was more impressive than mine was.
:lol
Streck
01-17-2006, 10:58 PM
Let's put it to a vote: How many guys here, when they were 15, would have totally banged that one hot teacher if she was asking for it?
I didn't have a single attractive teacher in all my years of schooling - college included, because I majored in physics.
Once, in high school, a hot student from a local college came in to observe my psych class, and I would have screwed her until she fell apart, but that's really it.
MegaMoonMan
01-17-2006, 11:09 PM
OK, for the sake of argument, let's just pretend we all had a hot teacher, one not reminiscent of a piss-licking canine.
Would you have done her back then?
I'm willing to bet most of us guys would have, and I'm not trying to ask a broad, loaded, or generalized question. Just a simple yes or no, even maybe works.
Wreckgar
01-17-2006, 11:13 PM
OK, for the sake of argument, let's just pretend we all had a hot teacher, one not reminiscent of a piss-licking canine.
Would you have done her back then?
I'm willing to bet most of us guys would have, and I'm not trying to ask a broad, loaded, or generalized question.
Yes. I had a teached who looked almost identical to Jennifer Aniston back in high school when Aniston was on the cover of Rolling Stone. Funny part to that story.
I had hockey season tickets and the guy who sat next to me at the games worked with her husband. We both agreed on her hotness.
Boardwise
01-18-2006, 08:55 AM
I'm all set with that. I have to spend my day looking at college girls, what with their painted-on low-rise jeans with a hint of thong panties peeking out the back, and those body-hugging mid-riff shirts that barely gird their firm, perky, gravity-defying breasts and coying reveal their flat, toned tummies and the occasional naughty girl tattoo or pierced bellybutton.
Yep.
Dam it.
I'm in the wrong job.
Wing alpha
01-18-2006, 09:24 AM
I'm not so sure...
Let's put it to a vote: How many guys here, when they were 15, would have totally banged that one hot teacher if she was asking for it?
junior high no way in hell
in highschool I had one cool and hot psycology teacher.....and yeah I would have done that in a hearthbeat.
but personaly I rather have someone my age or a bit younger.
Wing alpha
01-18-2006, 09:27 AM
Dam it.
I'm in the wrong job.
you could always take a course in any college! :p
btw lance haveyou been hanging around my college? Im surpriced of the small tops the girls use when is freaking -20 outside.....
Brownstreak
01-18-2006, 01:13 PM
Nieka Arreola
I can't help but giggle about the last name.
Main Entry: are·o·la
Pronunciation: &-'rE-&-l&
Function: noun
Inflected Form: plural are·o·lae /-"lE/ or -las
: a small area between things or about something: as a : the colored ring around the nipple or around a vesicle or pustule b : the portion of the iris that borders the pupil of the eye
Lance Halberd
01-18-2006, 02:03 PM
btw lance haveyou been hanging around my college? Im surpriced of the small tops the girls use when is freaking -20 outside.....
Yes, my lust for hot college-age poon is so insatiable that I must leave my own college behind and travel to the frozen northlands of Canadia in search of even hotter totty.
Wing alpha
01-18-2006, 02:25 PM
Yes, my lust for hot college-age poon is so insatiable that I must leave my own college behind and travel to the frozen northlands of Canadia in search of even hotter totty.
[Yoda]Rethorical Question. my answer it was[\Yoda]
Lance Halberd
01-18-2006, 02:40 PM
And mine was 100% pure sarcasm.
Also, it's 'Rhetorical', and your '\' is backwards.
And for future reference, it's 'h' before 't' when following 'g'.
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